Reddit I Think Im Falling in Love Again and Im Scared

Press J to jump to the feed. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts

Found the internet!

People who are agape to be/fall in dearest, why?

People who are afraid to be/autumn in dear, why?

This thread is archived

New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast

level 1

I'g scared of existence vulnerable. I know I'm the clingy and possessive kinds. I don't desire to cry and sob looking at my phone just because he hasn't texted back for an hr, and I know I will. Besides, those videos where another girl flirts with the guy and the girlfriend merely sits there watching because similar ??? I'm scared lmao I don't trust people at all.

level 2

Oh yes, I can relate. Non to the point where I captivate about phone messages, but I'chiliad definitely a very clingy person and that'south probably exhausting for both a potential partner and me, on elevation of vulnerability beingness scary in itself.

level ii

People need to be more accepting and supportive of someone with anxiety.

level 2

And that'south what happened to me... I mean the crying thing. He just kinda dropped me later that. I should've expected it

level ane

Because I am not the kind of person capable of managing themselves in a positive way to maintain a good for you relationship. It would only injure the other person, and I turn down to do that ever again.

Better to be solitary and mostly normal / stable than to have a partner and get unhinged. Doing well so far the last fifteen years without one.

level 2

Same. If I don't manage to fuck it up, chances are the other person will. And if somehow, after doing fucked upward things to scare them abroad they still want to be with me, I lose all respect for them and leave anyway to be alone by myself.

I'1000 merely broken homo.

level 2

Aye... but I'm unhinged either style so... yeah

level 1

Personally I just don't wanna be hurt once again🤷🏽‍♂️

level 2

I was married before and not long afterwards separating constitute a lovely woman. Younger than me but a perfect fit. Fast frontward 3 years and she's unhappy. I tin't fix it and she's leaving. We were perfect until about 3 weeks ago and it hasnt been the same. I've decided that I establish her too early in her life and that she simply fears settling down. I cannot think of person improve suited for me, and and so i wont wait. I'1000 merely done. This has injure far more than my divorce ever did.

level 2

Aforementioned here, my friend. It always hurts and I don't want that feeling once again soon. "Beloved = pain" in my world. Kinda sad.

level ii

Never gonna give y'all up never gonna allow you downward never gonna run around and desert you

level 2

This. I've been in love one time, she burned me and truthfully I've never gotten over information technology since I never desire to fall for anyone again. Dear just isn't worth it.

level 1

I've witnessed how a future or a family are being destroyed by "falling in love". Personally it scares me.

level one

Because I'm afraid of disturbing my peace. I'm ordinarily in a good identify earlier a relationship and the human relationship does zilch just destroy it.

level 2

I am finding my way back to my peace after my last relationship.

At that place is no manner to win. Because if yous aren't in a good place of peace, it isn't good to begin a relationship?

level 1

Because I'g so used to existence injure and I know what happens every fourth dimension and I don't want to exist in that kind of hurting again

level 1

I'm cynical to cover up my own raging inadequacy and failures, but I also believe anyone would just settle for me while they compromise with themselves until the relationship gradually fizzles out until it's awkward and we're waiting for the other to end information technology. That'southward the better case scenario, they could just cheat or talk behind my dorsum I guess lol.

r/AskReddit is the identify to ask and respond thought-provoking questions.

---

Reddit Inc © 2022. All rights reserved

lopezreenter.blogspot.com

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/lfg60h/people_who_are_afraid_to_befall_in_love_why/

Share this post